By
Shobha
Aggarwal
Women in India do not appear to
be active participants in the debate around the chanting of the slogan ‘Bharat Mata Ki Jai’. Even
the debate in the media is dominated through discourse by men. The chanting of
this slogan – necessary to prove ‘patriotism’ – is an obsession only of the so
called ‘patriotic’ men. Generally men belonging to right-wing political parties
are aggressively seen chanting the slogan ‘Bharat
Mata Ki Jai’; rarely is a woman heard chanting it except on a
political platform. The slogan is not just a construct of a Brahmanical patriarchal
mindset, it is an insult to women-hood and camouflages the ugly truth of how
women are treated in this country. The ‘Mother
India’ – a 1957 Hindi film – while depicting oppression and
suffering of Indian women also glamorizes it. The image of an ideal woman carried
by generations of Indian men is of an all sacrificing woman in face of
insurmountable adversities and has given rise to similar expectations from all
women. In the same vein the slogan ‘Bharat
Mata Ki Jai’ gives a free hand to the patriarchal capitalist
forces to exploit the geographical region called India the same way as its
women. The harsh truth is that just to stay alive and not being murdered at the
hands of the patriarchal forces in this country is an arduous task for women. If
a woman survives not being murdered either in the womb or after birth then she
faces the risk of being burnt alive at the funeral pyre of the husband (Sati) or for not bringing sufficient dowry.
The female child is so much undesired by most communities that according
to 2001 census data even “non-violent”
Jains were competing with Sikhs when it came to female foeticide – an uncomfortable
fact around which there has been little debate. Hindus, needless to say, are
worse when it comes to “missing women” in India. For women, odds for survival are
better in rural India compared to urban India. The chances of survival further improve
if a female child is born in a minority Muslim or Christian family. Anyone
in doubt only need to check the statistical data of the Census of India of the last
three decades.
If a girl child manages to survive
by bypassing foeticide and infanticide the next big battle for her is how to
avoid getting raped. And when it comes to rape for the sick male mind age is no
bar. From a two month old female child to a seventy year old woman it is a fair
game for men. And how does a two month old girl child save herself from her
male relatives or neighbours? As far as domestic violence goes, women being at
the bottom of the pyramid in most communities even a male from the most oppressed
section of the society feels free to beat up his earning wife and spend all her
savings in consuming liquor. Staring and stalking faced by women in everyday
life is a social reality as is sexual harassment of women at public spaces,
public transport and work place. Discrimination in jobs – civil as well as
military – is rampant; under-representation of women in parliament, judiciary
and executive is considered the norm. And yet the women are referred to as the
better half. This is the height of patriarchal cunningness.
Left to themselves, the Indian
men would rather that women are banished even from public spaces. Therefore men
have made public spaces almost inaccessible for women. Going out alone at night
is unthinkable for women in most cities in India, but even in broad daylight it
is not without risks. Just walking in Connaught Place (main business district
in New Delhi) abuses like mother fucker, sister fucker pour in your ears like
molten lead all the time. In the daily life of a woman the issue is not really
whether one chants ‘Bharat Mata Ki
Jai’ or not as long as she does not have to get her sensitivities
and sensibilities hurt by repeatedly being forced to hear abuses centering
around a woman’s private parts to wit ‘teri
ma ki …’. Often
one feels like stopping and hitting these men at the most sensitive part of
their anatomy but alas! Openly spitting, blowing their nose, making guttural
sounds and urinating constantly in public spaces is a favourite hobby of men
irrespective of their class or educational status. A crass and crude show of
male power!
Subjugation of women in India is
the only kind of oppression that cuts across caste, class, community and race. Women
would prefer if men give up these uncivilized, obscene, vulgar, brutal
practices against women rather than merely chant ‘Bharat Mata Ki Jai’. In a
country where the incumbent Prime Minister refuses to let his wife live with
him in his official residence, the hollowness of the slogan is all too
apparent. Women don’t really care about the slogan. Women in India want ‘Azadi’ not idolatry! Just let
the women exercise their constitutional right to equality and liberty in all
spheres of life – political, economic, social and cultural without any
discrimination. Till then the chant should be:
Women of India unite, you have nothing to lose
except your patriarchal chains
(The writer is a woman.)
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2. https://kashmirobserver.net/2016/opinions/mother-indiato-bharat-mata-ki-jai-nari-mangay-azadi-6147
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